First let me apologize for the lengthy letter. I get a bit wordy. > > I have been an avid golfer since the early '70's. My Dad ran a golf league > until his passing in 1995. Losing my "golfing buddy" I lost interest in > the game and have not played since. > > A few months ago, a friend of mine, mentioned that they would like to learn the > game and asked if I could teach her. Her decision has sparked new interest > for me so I decided to start playing again. I used to be a 12 handicap and > would like to eventually get back to that level of playing. > > Unfortunately, I am the type that suffers from the 'glass being half > empty' syndrome. For many reasons (that I won't get into), I have a > negative attitude about things and anger easily. I have been athletic all > my life and did very well in sports. Most sports came naturally to me, > except golf, where I had to work hard at it just to become decent. Maybe > that's why I am drawn to the game. > > Playing years ago, I put a lot of pressure on myself and when I didn't do > well I would get upset and sometimes throw clubs. My Dad used to tell me > to stay calm and relax since the attitude would definitely effect my next > and future shots. But like most young people, we think we know more than > everyone else and although his advice made sense, I could never keep my > cool. And yes, my next shots were bad and I would get madder and on and on > and on. > > As I am now 53, I have calmed a bit but still get upset over stupid things > (especially in daily life) and although I don't throw clubs anymore, I do > get down on myself when I don't hit the ball or score well. I try to teach > my friend about staying positive and maintaining a good attitude, but I > sometimes do not set the right example. > > When I practice at golf, I strive hard to have the "right" swing. In golf, > I read articles on technique and what to do and what NOT to do. I try > different grips, stances and swings. Sometimes these changes work for > awhile and sometimes they don't. But I keep trying. I have had the > pleasure in the sports that I have played to experience "being in the > zone". It's a great feeling (as you know). In bowling, I feel that I could > throw between my legs and still get a strike. In basketball, I could close > my eyes and swish the basket and in golf, I feel as if I could hit the > ball with the back of the club and put a 150 yard shot 5 feet from the > pin. You can do no wrong. Then there are times that I can't hit the ball > 50 yards. I get the "shanks" and feel as if it's the first time picking up > a club. I don't know if it's technique or mental or whatever, but I > literally lose the swing completely. > > But I keep trying and changing things, usually to no avail. Then while > watching the Golf Channel I saw a program on the 10 worst swings in golf. > These people had horrible swings (for pros) but yet they make it work for > them. My swing is far from horrible but I then decided to keep what I have > and work with it. I also decided to look into the mental aspect of the > game. > > I have always known that golf is a hugely mental game (hence the "zone") > but never read or learned anything about it. So, while researching items > on the Internet, I stumbled across Zen Golf. I went into the reading with > an open mind and was fascinated on the part of visualization. Although > this is common sense (to me), I have never applied it. Another part about > not letting your thoughts interfere with you was also helpful. I remember > about a month ago, I had a badly bruised rib. Every time I swung the club, > I experienced intense pain. I was forced to slow my tempo down. Guess > what? I hit the ball fantastically, long and straight. One, because I > slowed my tempo down and two, because the only thought I had was my rib. > No thinking about head down, arm straight, follow through, that last bad > shot, etc. My thoughts were primarily clear and didn't interfere with me. > I know this isn't exactly what you are teaching, but so far this is a > pre-Zen example of mine that I can relate to. > > But more importantly, the visualization technique. I went to the course > today and applied this principle. Before every shot, I visualized what I > wanted and/or visualized the smoothness of a great swing or feeling of > being in the zone. It worked, especially on the first hole when you are > not loose and everyone is watching. It's a 185 yard par 3 and I was going > to hit a hybrid and swing very easy but I took my 5 iron and trusted my > swing and visualized what I wanted. Bam! It hit just a couple yards right > of the green. But I hit it, on the sweet spot, exactly the way I > visualized it > > I used the techniques all day and it worked beautifully! I shot 7 strokes > better than ever on that course! Usually on the middle holes, I start to > loose my swing (like always) and I'm usually a goner for the rest of the > round. This time, I started to lose the swing, but I kept my composure, > accepted it and it only lasted two holes and then I came back like > gangbusters. I consistently was hitting long irons smooth, straight and > long! Never did that before so consistently. My putting was very good > also. If I missed a lengthy putt, it was missed by only about a foot. > Incredible! The 18th hole was a 155 yards, into the wind, par 3. I trusted > my 7 iron and visualized a smooth and straight shot. Stuck it 7 feet from > the pin. > > So I will work with the swing I have (making minor changes at times) and > be happy and accept it. I will also apply the book's principles and hopefully > someday I will break 80(82 is my best) and may even get into > single digit handicaps. > >I will re-read/study, this book, many times after I finish reading it the first time. Oh, did I forget to > mention. I am only on page 60! > > |